June 30, 2009
On a beutiful summer day (one of the few this year), my second eldest daughter celebrated another birthday!
We celebrated by putting out nice chairs and a table with a pink cloth for my "fashion Diva" daughter, whom always has to have everything done up in pink! She says: "That one day her whole house will be painted pink inside and out," and I believe her.
We had little tea muffins, and homemade sconce with ginger tea! With just a touch of honey of course. She also had nicely sliced up lemons on the table for just the splash in their tea. Their was a nice homemade cake (strawberry of course) with melted vanilla frosting on top!
Her sisters, her cousin, and three friend in attendance had a great time! Simple but elegant.
Until the next time...chow for now.
-Nubian
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Friday, June 26, 2009
Happy 90th Grandma T!
June 26, 2009
On this very special day we (meaning my full extented family) celebrated our Grandmothers 90th birthday! Yes, the family came from all over from Florida to Maine!
What a great time we had celebrating the Birth of our Mother, Grandmother, Great Grandmother, and even Great Great to a set of twins and their baby brother!
Grandma T we love ya,
Nubian
On this very special day we (meaning my full extented family) celebrated our Grandmothers 90th birthday! Yes, the family came from all over from Florida to Maine!
What a great time we had celebrating the Birth of our Mother, Grandmother, Great Grandmother, and even Great Great to a set of twins and their baby brother!
Grandma T we love ya,
Nubian
Sunday, June 21, 2009
Happy Father's Day!
The story I want to share with you today is a true story about empathy… So take a few moments, sit down, relax, and enjoy…
————- Up in the Himalayan Mountains, there once lived a Japanese Sage… He was someone who had dedicated his life to enlightenment, so he lived alone up on a mountain top and meditated all day long. Occasionally, he would come down from the mountain into the valley to gather food and visit his relatives. One day, while down in the valley, his sister came up to him completely distraught. She was full of anger, anxiety, and sadness over her teenage boy. Her adolescent son was a big trouble maker. He was getting in trouble at school, lashing out at his family, and engaging in self-destructive behavior. No one in the family could get through to him and he was causing the whole family to suffer. The Sage was asked by his sister to come visit the boy and talk to him. Since he was known for his ‘enlightened consciousness’ and compassion, she figured he was the only one who could help. So the Sage agreed and came to live with his sister for a while. He ate dinner with them, helped with the household chores, and did just about everything BUT talk to the young boy. He ended up staying there for two weeks just observing the dynamics of the household. After two whole weeks, his sister started to get angry. “Why haven’t you had a talk with my son yet?”, she asked. The Sage simply told her that there was nothing to say. The boy was also very confused. He knew that his Uncle was asked to come visit to have some sort of talk with him about his behavior. The Sage decided it was time to go, so he went back into his room to get his shoes. As he was sitting on the edge of his bed tying his shoelaces, the boy came and sat down in front of him. The boy stared at his Uncle for a few moments waiting for some kind of response. The Sage looked up from tying his shoes with tears streaming down his face. He just looked into the boys eyes with love, not saying a word. The emotion was so intense, that the boy started crying, too. The Sage cried for his nephew. He cried because he felt the pain the young boy was going through. He physically felt the feelings of being so lost, so disconnected from oneself, and feeling so unloved. The boy wasn’t misbehaving just to be malicious. He was acting out because he was in pain. No one else in the family understood this. They all saw him as a nuisance, as someone who was causing THEM pain and suffering. They could not see past their own self-centeredness. They never stopped to empathize with where he was coming from… And this lack of understanding just made everything worse. Staring speechlessly into the teary eyes of his Uncle, the boy felt understood for the first time in his life. He knew the Sage wasn’t crying because of his bad behavior… He was empathizing with his own suffering. For a moment, they both felt the same pain. From that point on, the boy changed. He had been running from his own pain and acting out because he was avoiding it. His Uncle inspired him and helped him actually ‘feel’ the hurt that was inside. The unconditional love and compassion that he felt from the Sage changed his life. The Sage not only helped the boy more than anyone thought possible, but he also helped the rest of the family. He taught them what true empathy really is…
————– You don’t need to be a Sage to practice empathy for others. We, as human beings, have such a deep capacity for love and compassion… I think most of us just forget it’s there sometimes. I hope this story opened your heart a little today! When you have empathy and understanding for those in your life, your relationships will blossom. I don’t know about you, but I’m really looking to create a paradigm shift in the world. A shift away from selfishness and greed, and a movement towards true empathy, compassion, and comradery. We can do so much good for the world when we stop thinking so much about ourselves, and start putting ourselves in the shoes of those we serve. Feel free to share this story with anyone you care about! And make sure you leave me a comment below to share your thoughts…
————- Up in the Himalayan Mountains, there once lived a Japanese Sage… He was someone who had dedicated his life to enlightenment, so he lived alone up on a mountain top and meditated all day long. Occasionally, he would come down from the mountain into the valley to gather food and visit his relatives. One day, while down in the valley, his sister came up to him completely distraught. She was full of anger, anxiety, and sadness over her teenage boy. Her adolescent son was a big trouble maker. He was getting in trouble at school, lashing out at his family, and engaging in self-destructive behavior. No one in the family could get through to him and he was causing the whole family to suffer. The Sage was asked by his sister to come visit the boy and talk to him. Since he was known for his ‘enlightened consciousness’ and compassion, she figured he was the only one who could help. So the Sage agreed and came to live with his sister for a while. He ate dinner with them, helped with the household chores, and did just about everything BUT talk to the young boy. He ended up staying there for two weeks just observing the dynamics of the household. After two whole weeks, his sister started to get angry. “Why haven’t you had a talk with my son yet?”, she asked. The Sage simply told her that there was nothing to say. The boy was also very confused. He knew that his Uncle was asked to come visit to have some sort of talk with him about his behavior. The Sage decided it was time to go, so he went back into his room to get his shoes. As he was sitting on the edge of his bed tying his shoelaces, the boy came and sat down in front of him. The boy stared at his Uncle for a few moments waiting for some kind of response. The Sage looked up from tying his shoes with tears streaming down his face. He just looked into the boys eyes with love, not saying a word. The emotion was so intense, that the boy started crying, too. The Sage cried for his nephew. He cried because he felt the pain the young boy was going through. He physically felt the feelings of being so lost, so disconnected from oneself, and feeling so unloved. The boy wasn’t misbehaving just to be malicious. He was acting out because he was in pain. No one else in the family understood this. They all saw him as a nuisance, as someone who was causing THEM pain and suffering. They could not see past their own self-centeredness. They never stopped to empathize with where he was coming from… And this lack of understanding just made everything worse. Staring speechlessly into the teary eyes of his Uncle, the boy felt understood for the first time in his life. He knew the Sage wasn’t crying because of his bad behavior… He was empathizing with his own suffering. For a moment, they both felt the same pain. From that point on, the boy changed. He had been running from his own pain and acting out because he was avoiding it. His Uncle inspired him and helped him actually ‘feel’ the hurt that was inside. The unconditional love and compassion that he felt from the Sage changed his life. The Sage not only helped the boy more than anyone thought possible, but he also helped the rest of the family. He taught them what true empathy really is…
————– You don’t need to be a Sage to practice empathy for others. We, as human beings, have such a deep capacity for love and compassion… I think most of us just forget it’s there sometimes. I hope this story opened your heart a little today! When you have empathy and understanding for those in your life, your relationships will blossom. I don’t know about you, but I’m really looking to create a paradigm shift in the world. A shift away from selfishness and greed, and a movement towards true empathy, compassion, and comradery. We can do so much good for the world when we stop thinking so much about ourselves, and start putting ourselves in the shoes of those we serve. Feel free to share this story with anyone you care about! And make sure you leave me a comment below to share your thoughts…
Friday, June 5, 2009
Grace In Small Things!!
After Reading another blog "Grace In The Small Things."
I've decided to list a few of my own:
1. The rain: April showers bring May flowers! In June, I love to see my new flowers and vegetables come up!
2. Love spending time with my children, laughing! (Laughter is the best meicine)
3. Love being home alone.
4. Surfing the internet.
5. Gardening in the Springtime.
5. vacuuming and seeing straight lines on the carpet.
6. Love watching the cooking shows and trying the new recipes at home for my family.
7. Sleeping in...whenever it happens it is a wonderful thing.
I've decided to list a few of my own:
1. The rain: April showers bring May flowers! In June, I love to see my new flowers and vegetables come up!
2. Love spending time with my children, laughing! (Laughter is the best meicine)
3. Love being home alone.
4. Surfing the internet.
5. Gardening in the Springtime.
5. vacuuming and seeing straight lines on the carpet.
6. Love watching the cooking shows and trying the new recipes at home for my family.
7. Sleeping in...whenever it happens it is a wonderful thing.
Wednesday, June 3, 2009
Counting My Blessings!
Looking back on my Birthday, I am thankful for another day, good health, New Beginnings, and family!
Sunday after church my father and sister (NF) took my whole family out to dinner. This is huge to me, seeing how we are a family of six... We had a GREAT time! Not, sure how many of you have ever gone to a resturant with a toddler, pre-teens and well it can be a lot of fun ;)!
Monday the day of my Birthday, I went to the library in the Adult section! If you have kids that is huge, because you are always in the childrens section with your younger children. So, I enjoyed reading magazines and browsing the books and material that I wanted to look at. Then, I received a call from my DD (Pretty Princess) she was calling to invite me to lunch with her sewing class. My children are homeschooled, they meet weekly with other homeschooled girl friends and have lunch. Learning about sewing and make new projects. Lunch was nice, cozy and healthy!
They were not finished with their project so..I left for a nice walk downtown which was a very cute and quaint! Little shops, filled with jewely, clothes, children's toys, everything within walking distance. Stopped into a little book store and purchased a book, which is what I do every year on my Birthday!
On my way back to my car, I went into an Ice cream shop and enjoyed an ice cream cup filled with "turtle" flavored ice cream (first time) with marshmellows and fudge. Great Day! Spent with my children and Hubby!
Sunday after church my father and sister (NF) took my whole family out to dinner. This is huge to me, seeing how we are a family of six... We had a GREAT time! Not, sure how many of you have ever gone to a resturant with a toddler, pre-teens and well it can be a lot of fun ;)!
Monday the day of my Birthday, I went to the library in the Adult section! If you have kids that is huge, because you are always in the childrens section with your younger children. So, I enjoyed reading magazines and browsing the books and material that I wanted to look at. Then, I received a call from my DD (Pretty Princess) she was calling to invite me to lunch with her sewing class. My children are homeschooled, they meet weekly with other homeschooled girl friends and have lunch. Learning about sewing and make new projects. Lunch was nice, cozy and healthy!
They were not finished with their project so..I left for a nice walk downtown which was a very cute and quaint! Little shops, filled with jewely, clothes, children's toys, everything within walking distance. Stopped into a little book store and purchased a book, which is what I do every year on my Birthday!
On my way back to my car, I went into an Ice cream shop and enjoyed an ice cream cup filled with "turtle" flavored ice cream (first time) with marshmellows and fudge. Great Day! Spent with my children and Hubby!
Tuesday, June 2, 2009
Monday, June 1, 2009
Happy Birthday To Me!
I'm no longer 23! When I take a look around, at the world situation, the economy, the rising and the falling of the gas prices... Life aint so bad!
As Martha Stewart would say "It's A Good Thing"! When you've got family and *true* friends, nothing else truly matters. Thank God for good Health, the people around me have been saying take good care of yourself. It it will pay off in the end!
Happy 45th to me! It's already a Good Day!
-NubianQueen
My Birthday is also shared with one famous actress! ... Marilyn Monroe, this would have been her 83rd Birthday!
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